Financial problems –should I accept proposition ?
When I married my babe, she knew i was committed to Rock. I’ve been in bands for the entire 12 years we’ve been married, which I guess you could say is my job. Anyway, even though she works two jobs, she doesn’t seem to really make much cash for us. Recently a promoter stopped by one of my shows which my wife was at - long story short, he implied that if I want to get signed by his label, I should ‘loan’ him her for a night, and would front me a few bills in advance of this as a sign of how serious he is about signing my band. The bucks would come in handy. I really don’t want to ask her to get a 3rd job and we could use the money. Plus, if I get signed, money won’t be an issue for long. I’m thinking about talking with her about it and giving her the choice - accept proposition or get a 3rd job, its completely her choice. Will she be upset with this or understand my reasoning?
October 14th, 2008 at 8:55 pm
Well sounds like you’ve used her for 12 years so why not a little more??? Hell who knows maybe he’ll be better for her and to her, and she’ll leave your arrogant conceded butt!!!
Get a life loser!!!
October 16th, 2008 at 7:40 am
if you will trade your wife for money you dont have the reason to live, you can do that to your wife, how much more to your own children, perhaps if your mother is young you will do the same thing, not unless you wanted a ruined life for the rest of your life go ahead.
October 19th, 2008 at 7:25 pm
I think you are asking if you should loan your wife out to this stranger for a night for some cash, and to get signed to a label. If this is what you are asking, this is CRAZY!!! If my husband asked me to do this I would leave him, no question. This shows no respect for her. I don’t care how bad you need the money. You have no idea what he wants to do with her. What if you never see her again. Think of it this way, by loaning her out to another man in exchange for money, you are basically saying that money is more important to you than your wife. SUCH a bad idea.
October 21st, 2008 at 3:15 pm
You’ve been married 12 years, your wife works two jobs, and you don’t have money… the problem is with YOU, not with her. You need to grow up and figure out some way to chip in financially… If you need money so badly that you’re willing to pimp your wife, then you should look in the mirror at yourself and realize that maybe YOU could do something in addition to playing in a band. Your wife works two jobs, why can’t you?
October 22nd, 2008 at 7:48 am
Why don’t YOU get a job?? Why should she be left to take care of all of your stuff. If I were her and you asked me that I would drop you like a hot potato. Grow up, get a job. In fact, get two.
October 24th, 2008 at 6:25 am
Visiting fantasy land are we? I suppose (since men refuse to admit even to themselves that they are wrong or have failed in any way) that this is the way you justify being completely useless to your relationship and life, and your wife is not really your wife, just a mother substitute, and you don’t think you need to get off your A S S and get a job.
Wake up, boy, you are not here to be served. YOU are here to take care of yourself and find some way to be of value to your surroundings.
Polluting the atmosphere with a bunch of garage racket does not cut it.
Sorry. It’s time to grow up. It’s time your responsibilities matched the size of your penis. This, I am sure, you will insist is HUGE. Therefore…put two and two together and you got it.
Go get a job.
October 26th, 2008 at 11:27 pm
there is something wrong with you
October 28th, 2008 at 11:00 pm
Oh yes.. definitely she will be upset…
And she will think that her existence to you is nothing but ONLY $$$$… If she accept the proposal..than that will be the end of your relationship..
Look..you are asking your wife to prostitute herself…don’t think that is a good idea at all..I am sure there will be other means of making ends meet as well. The main idea is to be prudent… spend less.. and you whould be fine..
take care..
October 29th, 2008 at 8:56 am
Don’t do it.
Coming up with creative ways to make money is one thing, but this is too much.
How can you see the woman you love treated like a common whore…? That is exactly what that would be. You are trading her sexual services for money.
Did you ever think of what could happen after that? Lose all respect for her because she had sex with another man? She could lose all respect for you because of the sacrifice she made to help you succeed, could you ever handle people finding out about it?
I think that most women would be upset at this. Tell the guy who offered you to go **** himself, that your marriage and self-worth is worth much much more than any record deal could ever be.
October 30th, 2008 at 5:35 am
You could only be a drummer. I think I’ve been in a few bands with you lol
What do you call a drummer that breaks up with his girlfriend?
Homeless!
October 30th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
I would hope you already know the answer to your question. If you really feel the need to pimp out your wife, what will the
price be the next time you run into financial dire straits.
You should tell this “promoter” to go take a flying f*@%k. Surely you have more respect for your wife than to treat her like a prostitue. I would work 3 jobs busting my back before I ask my wife to do something like that.
I think if you do this, not only would you lose the respect your wife has for you but if she goes along with it, it may cause problems with your relationship down the road. I know that’s probably not what you wanted to hear but it is something to think about. You’re taking an awful risk with your marriage… I hope for your wifes sake the risk is worth it.